This is what I'm reading right now...beating me up!
"A relationship with God simply cannot grow when money, activities, favorite sports teams, addictions or commitments are piled on top of it.
Most of us have too much in our lives. As David Goetz writes, Too much of the good life ends up being toxic, deforming us spiritually.
A lot of things are good by themselves, but all of it together keeps us from living healthy, fruitful lives for God. I will say it again: Do not assume you are good soil."
Since misery (convicted) loves company - thought I'd lay this on you to dwell on too!