Wednesday, August 31, 2011

a recent reunion

Reunion - 1. An instance of two or more people coming together again after separation.
2. A social gathering attended by members of a certain group of people who have not seen each other for some time

We all can only build into a limited number of people in our life.  We are with some people daily and with others only very occasionally.  Such was the case recently when my fathers' side of the family got together for our yearly reunion.  Some of my cousins I feel I know well even though I only see them  occasionally, nieces and nephews are beginning families of their own.  This is making it more and more difficult to feel connected with one another's lives.  

(These beautiful children make me want to stay connected to my cousins.  Second generation relatives)!

I realize chances are high that my own children will not know their relatives in the not so distant future.

Because people move about so freely from place to place and job to job very few are connected any longer.  This is kind of sad however, if ministry has taught me one thing it is that you can only be truly connected to a very small inner circle.  And slightly connected to an outer circle.  This removes a lot of pressure to be all things to all people.  


I have encouraged our own children to care for a few close friends and relatives well, and be open to minister to others God brings across your path - but NEVER let the enemy make you bare the guilt of not being all things to all people.  This is impossible!

Sunday, August 28, 2011

weekend report

Ministry begins early each weekend at Crossroads.  These area some of my favorite people at Crossroads.  We lovingly refer to them as the Breakfast Club.  We push cafe tables together for them each Sunday morning knowing they will be the first to arrive.  I believe fellowship is one of the most important aspects of ministry and these friends portray it beautifully!

It was great to have Pastor Tim back from study leave this weekend, as I write this I can hear our congregation laughing at his jokes and applicable teaching - worship was sweet and teaching was strong!  Very thankful for our ministry!

Our setlist:

Opening Song:  Let Your Glory Shine - Brewster
Announcement Video:  Natalie Mangette
Praise:  All My Fountains - Tomlin
Praise:  Everyday-  Hillsong
Praise:  Holy Is The Lord - Tomlin
Message:  I Corinthians 13:  Love Unveiled - Pt. 1 - Tim Armstrong
Ending Song:  Stay Amazed - Gateway

To watch our services on line go to Crossroads Community Church.

To see what other ministries included in their setlist go to www.theworshipcommunity.com

Have a blessed week!


Saturday, August 27, 2011

when you bother me

When something about you bothers me - I need to take a hard long look at me - before bothering you.


I saw this statement on a blog recently and it really caused me to take a hard look at myself.


I recently told my husband that I feel as if I've become really critical lately.  I hate being that way!  I have spent time recently evaluating what causes that in me.  Jealousy?  Criticizing others in order to make myself look better?  Trying to make myself feel better about my own short comings or lack of discipline?


When I saw the above statement I realized that usually what I criticize in others truly is something I don't like about myself.  Or, at least something that is 'worse' about them then what I think is wrong in my life.


The tongue is truly 'sharper than a two edged sword'!  Think how sharp that is and how much damage that does.


Those of you who claim that Jesus is Lord of your life, do you talk like He is?


If people could hear how you talk behind their backs would they be convinced you really know Him ?


There are days they would have no idea that I am a child of the King if they heard what I say in private.  That bothers me about myself. 


 Today I ask God to just bring this writing to my mind whenever I slip back into this horrible sin.  Will you join me in living for the Lord even in private?



Friday, August 26, 2011

very content this evening

I am very content sitting here on my deck this evening.  It is very easy in contentment to become unaware of those suffering not so far away.

I think of those in the path of the hurricane right now.  How different their evening is from mine, and their coming weeks and even months will be.  Contentment will not be a part of their vocabulary for a long time to come.  Survival may be their mode of operation instead.

I am very content sitting here on my deck this evening.  It is very easy in contentment to become unaware of those suffering not so far away.

Two days ago I got to spend some time with a friend who I had not seen for several months.  In that time he had been diagnosed with prostate cancer.  I was unaware of his medical battle.  He will have surgery very soon and I have now committed to holding him up to the Lord in prayer - asking for his health to be restored. Although his faith runs deep, he is not content this evening.  He is anxious and hopeful and trying to rest in the assurance the Lord brings to each of us when we cry out for Him.

I am very content sitting here on my deck this evening.  It is very easy in contentment to become unaware of those suffering not so far away.

I have a friend who was recently let go from his job.  He has children and a wife at home.  He is not content tonight.  He is burdened by the responsibility of caring for a family without income.  He wonders why His Lord would allow such a struggle to be part of his life.  He sleeps little and worries and prays continuously while trying to encourage his young family that he'll find something soon, that this is God's will right now.  He tries hard to believe his own words.

I am very content sitting here on my deck this evening...but I am very aware of those around me struggling in ways I may never experience.  I love them all and I feel their pain, and in my contentment  tonight - I lift them to the thrown of my God and beg for their healing and provision.

My struggle will come on another evening I am sure, and then this evening of contentment will rise as a reminder that God is good and hard things are used to teach me what contentment never could.




Thursday, August 25, 2011

Pastor Tim at Creation Museum

Today we were blessed to listen as Pastor Tim
lead the devotion time for the staff of the Creation Museum !

Tim is pictured here with Ken Ham, founder and President of the Creation Museum and Answers In Genesis earlier today.  Ken and his team ministered at Crossroads a few months ago and it was so amazing to watch Pastor Tim return the favor to Ken's staff.

When our staff at Crossroads creates a relationship with other leaders around the country, it is so rewarding to encourage one another in our respective ministries.

Some of our children's areas at Crossroads are currently using curriculum created at Answers In Genesis.  It was so interesting to see where all the curriculum is designed and printed.  The impact this ministry has on our world today is very far reaching and eternal!

It was a great privilege for us to visit our friends at the Creation Museum on Thursday.  We look forward to a long relationship with this great ministry!






Wednesday, August 24, 2011

the most creative blogs

I am interested in finding the most creative blogs out there!  Can you help me by giving me links or names to the most creative blogs that you know of out there?

I love anything creative - anything that awakens ideas and creativity.

Can you help me please?

Monday, August 22, 2011

my day off

I caught myself beginning my day with a check list.  Things that I had to get done before relaxing.  I realized I was missing the point of a day off of work.  God likes us to rest - He created us with that need.

I finished my 4 'jobs' then sat down and took a deep breath preparing to read and write.  I wondered if I had missed a blessing God had waiting for me - if I had only rested.  I will never know I guess.

I drives me a little crazy if everything is not organized to my liking before I rest.  I am beginning to understand that is totally unrealistic.  I need to force things to wait - they are not going anywhere.

I will try next Monday to do a better job of embracing a true day off...

Sunday, August 21, 2011

weekend report

A-M-A-Z-I-N-G weekend - we were lead by the Youth Band!  So encouraging!

Jamie Koenig, our Middle School guy lead us in worship with the youth band and Jesse Rider, the High School guy taught us about worship this weekend...so good!

While the team prepared for the weekend - our Senior Pastor Tim Armstrong crawled around the stage getting great shots of each student band member!  Jamie (singing) didn't realize he was behind him and nearly knocked him off the stool when he turned around - could have been ugly!



Our set list:

Opening Song:  All My Fountains - Tomlin
announcements:  Deering Dyer - Small Groups/House Church pastor guy
Praise:  Happy Day - Sublime
Praise: Take It All - Sublime
Worship:  Mighty To Save - Hillsong
Message:  Worship  from a Student's perspective - Jesse Rider
Worship:  Revelation Song - Jobe
Worship:  Rescue - Desperation Band



At least one guy said he was challenged to come more prepared to participate in worship and had been convicted on how he had been holding back!  So mission accomplished guys!  You prepared well and communicated what God laid on your hearts!  Proud as if I was your mom!

What other ministries used in their worship services this weekend www.theworshipcommunity.com

To watch our services on line go to www.crossroadswired.com

May God richly bless you - remain in worship all week!

Thursday, August 18, 2011

my empty living room

We have been searching for a couple pieces of new furniture.  That is not always a fun project, but, because there is no specific time frame for completion - I'm having a blast!  Ok well, part of the fun is that each time we go searching we just have to eat out - a real disappointment but I'm holding up so far!

These days there are are no kids lounging with laptops or pets lounging on kids in my living room.  No food on tables and counters  (and floors) and no need to even run the vacuum cleaner very often. These days are different days.  Slower days - empty living room days.

In these quiet slower days I pay attention more, watch TV less, read and enjoy my husband.

My living room may be empty but my heart is full of memories, future possibilities and God's love and a deep sense of thankfulness.








Wednesday, August 17, 2011

the other 3 fingers

Who does unforgiveness hurt? The person that is unforgiving and no one else.

That's me.

I recently have discovered that I was harboring an unwillingness to forgive.  Guess what?  The people that had offended me had no clue and had lost no sleep over it!

My unwillingness to forgive was creating in me a mean spirit - a desire for retaliation.  I found myself wishing I had opportunity to tell them what I thought of their behavior - not toward me but toward the body of Christ.  God can handle it without my help.  Like our Sunday School teacher used to say, "when you start pointing your finger look at who the other 3 fingers are pointing back to, YOU!"  I am usually part of the problem!

That is why God tells us to forgive.  So that our souls are free to worship and harbor no dark area of disobedience.  That is after all what unforgiveness is - disobedience.

I always assumed that teaching was for the benefit of those I forgave - an arrogant thought indeed!  No, the forgiveness heals me, not them.

Funny how God's principles work that way!

I am His daughter - I desire to serve only Him... I must forgive others.

I only have to take a close look at what the other 3 fingers point out in my own life to realize that I need to  ask for forgiveness in my evaluation of how others live and treat me.

Who do you need to forgive right now?  You cannot fully worship the perfect Savior until you do.




Tuesday, August 16, 2011

what I learned today

Although the title of my Tuesday posts are about learning - I must confess, today I didn't study a thing!

Instead I spent the day with girl friends.  Wild girlfriends!  Seriously, we laughed until we were sick!!

I guess what I learned was that I consider myself very blessed to have such friends.  (Don't tell them I said that I'll deny it!)

When you can goof around and laugh with people and yet know that they would do ANYTHING for you - then you are truly blessed!  I believe this is how God intended for us to live - together.

Some people I know live such isolated lives, I don't know how they survive.  I cannot live that way.

Today reminded me that I need to invest more time in my friends and I am totally convinced God enjoyed the laughter He heard...and maybe chuckled at our ridiculous behavior!




Monday, August 15, 2011

my day off

Had a blast with my hubby and my son.  Perfect.  (Only thing better would have been if my daughter, son-in-law and soon to be daughter-in-law would have been with us).

We ate coneys - got new license plates - browsed through several stores - and grilled steak.  Good day.

A day off means being away from what a regular day contains, and I was.

A day off means focusing on your family, and I did.

A day off means rest, and I did.

God knew we would need  a day off and he demonstrated that as He finished creation , Genesis 2:2  "And on the seventh day God finished his work that he had done, and he rested on the seventh day from all his work that he had done."

...and I did too.

Sunday, August 14, 2011

in the distance

I can hear the praise and worship team preparing off in the distance.

We've been teaching our congregation how to prepare before coming to the services here at Crossroads.

We've been teaching them that worship is not just singing.

We've been teaching them that the singing part of the service is not about them.

This morning I woke up very convicted to prepare my own heart for corporate worship.  It is perhaps even more difficult for someone leading to really be able to focus on the services when you are in charge of the services.  But, I was thinking that is a really lame excuse to throw to God.

This morning I confessed any unconfessed sin He brought to my mind and asked Him to guide my words and sharpen my focus on Him only.

I'm excited for the services to begin!


Friday, August 12, 2011

temporal junk

In Blaine Hogan's book "Untitled" he talks about "flooding our brain with temporal stuff".  Pow - it hits  me where it hurts.

Temporal -pertaining to or concerned with the present life or this world; worldly: temporal joys.


I spent time recently with a leader from another ministry who told me that it was good I was so anxious to keep learning and seeking new things.  


That is good - not thinking you 'know it all', however, what things am I learning and filling my mind with?  Things that last forever, or temporal things?


I realize there has to be a balance as in any aspect of life.  But for some reason this simple statement of Blaine's really challenged me this morning as I organized my 'to do' list once again trying to accomplish the very most I can squeeze into my life today!


Keep this in your mind today... 

We should all try to weigh the temporal-ness of the things we choose to fill our minds with against eternity.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

when to tell

I struggle when to reveal something I know about a situation.

I recently found myself in a place where one of my friends didn't realize what had happened in the past that would affect whether they should participate in an event.  In my opinion they shouldn't - but, was it my right to warn them or just keep my mouth shut and let them make their own decision?

I searched my heart and my motives and in the end felt it was the right thing to do,  to warn them to be very careful if they planned to go to the event.

It was the right decision, I am confident about it now.

It is amazing how God places us in the exact places He needs us to be if we follow obediently.  The question is are we open to follow His lead?

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you knew details that may need to be shared?  Did you?   Please share!

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

what I learned today

I am currently reading "Twelve Extraordinary Women" by John MacArthur in preparation for leading the Crossroads Young Single Ladies group tomorrow.  In the intro MacArthur says , "All these women ultimately became extraordinary not because of any natural qualities of their own, but because the one true God whom they worshiped is great, mighty, glorious, and awesome, and HE refined them like silver.  He redeemed them through the work of an extraordinary Savior - His own divine Son..."

This is a message of hope.  We don't have to be wealthy, well known, attend the top schools, or considered important - we just have to be available to become the people God needs, and the people God can change and use for eternity!  We only become extraordinary through the power of the Holy Spirit as we allow God to invade every ordinary part of our being.

Can you imagine what it must have been like to just be an ordinary person and  suddenly you become one of the people He chooses to use in the Bible to teach millions and millions of people about His plan for their life?

These women never knew their story was chosen to be part of the Bible - they were just available and faithful just as we should be.


Monday, August 8, 2011

my day off

Creative juices flowing today...well, at least as long as the money lasted!

I am still trying to get my house put back together after getting long overdue carpeting.  We still are waiting for several pieces we ordered - still cannot find any contemporary end table/coffee tables that we like.  To continue my search I went to an antique store and a second hand store that I had never been to before!  Oh my goodness  - I had SO much fun browsing and searching for retro-contemporary among the old.

I found a chair I loved (needs some repair work) for my desk.  Then lots of smaller accent pieces.  Here is one of my favorites!

There is NOTHING I like more than trying to imagine how I would use things - where I would place things and most importantly - will my husband let me keep these things??  I took home a bunch of different things and he liked all but 2 - so I felt like it was a search well worth while.

I've talked about it before - I would have LOVED to attend some sort of design school but never did - nevertheless that love for design and searching for just the right things is always with me.  It is a weird hunger that I have never been able to satisfy or really exercise very often, but this re-do has given me a chance to hunt - and that I love!

Tonight I also began work on the next set design for the church - cheap and interesting...hmmmm.

Anyway it was a great day off - found a few treasures and now will continue just a little longer on-line.

What gets your creative juices flowing?


Sunday, August 7, 2011

weekend report


Milo Sgambellone, one of our worship leaders at Crossroads, taught on worship this weekend.   It was amazing!

Our praise team lead us in corporate worship - probably the loudest singing I have heard from our congregation in a very long time!  It was good to be int he house of the Lord!!

Our setlist:

Low Rider - strong brass!

You Are Good - Lakewood

God Be Praise/Our God Reigns - New Life

How Great Thou Art - Baloche

How Great Is Our God - Tomlin

Message:  Worship from the Worship Leader's Perspective

Here I Am To Worship - Passion

To watch our services live or to watch our past messages go to www.crossroadswired.com

To see what other ministries used in their services go to www.theworshipcommunity.com

Saturday, August 6, 2011

the best use of time


Yearly I struggle with how to appreciate all the volunteers that make up the department at our ministry that I oversee.  There are nearly 150 volunteers and 3 full time staff under my supervision.  (How this came to be is a complete mystery!)

Anyway, one thing I care about deeply in ministry is that people be given opportunity to serve in their gifted area, using their God-given talents AND, that they feel connected and appreciated.

My primary job at the church is to create unique worship services each weekend as well as all the special event services at our church.  This includes the areas of drama, oversight of sound, selection of and execution of music, video, lighting, set design and I direct the services each weekend as well.  So these are all the teams that were invited.

So the struggle remains – how do I show volunteers that serve 52 weeks a year how much they are needed by the local church, how they are making a difference in people’s lives for eternity and how much they personally mean to me?  Tough!

I concluded that there were two things that would help to accomplish this.
1.     1. Invite them to our home
2.     2. Show them how much of a mess our ministry would be if they weren’t serving in areas in which they are gifted

I decided to ask each team to switch places with another team that they normally do not serve on.  They were handed instructions and given 15 minutes to prepare before the ‘service’ began (and I use the word very loosely).

Our regular vocalists became the tech team.  Their duties at the picnic included:  writing out all the song lyrics by hand and cutting strips of Poster Board that they had to hold up as the song was sung.  (A typical service at Crossroads uses Media Shout to project the words on screens). 






They had to choose 2 people to hold colored light gels up in the air at just the right place in the song representing lighting color changes that would typically be programmed for our services.  And 2 people that had never run sound before ran the small soundboard.  (Really badly I may add)

Our regular band members become the actors.  They performed the ‘’doctors office” skit where one actor catches all the other actors ailments as they enter the office. Quite entertaining!












Our regular tech team became the singers.  (This was hideous)

Our regular Drama team became the band.  (This was HILARIOUS)

Our Youth Band became our liturgical painters during the music portion of the service.

And, we had a grand finale featuring the 3 staff guys in our department destroying “Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairy “ – this horrifying ballet will be etched in all of our brains forever!      

I really don’t know when I have laughed so hard and for so long as I did Sunday night.  And the real treat was listening to all the faithful team members laughing as well.

We capped off the night with a repeat attempt to jump our creek by one of our team members with his Hummer.  (This attempt has become a picnic tradition). It was a repeated fail as he once again buried his Hummer up to the doors in mud.  This resulted in an ‘after dark’ pulling from the muck by a backhoe graciously loaned to us from our neighboring Snow Resort – two driveways down the road.    

I felt like our mission was accomplished!  We demonstrated to our teams how much they all contribute by serving in their gifted areas and how much we all appreciate the fact that they serve in their gifted areas.

I watched as team members who usually don’t get to serve on the same teams got reacquainted (our teams serve one weekend each month).  I watched as several new team members just completing their training “Joined” the team, fitting in perfectly as they began their future with our ministry.  And, as I watched them interact I noticed that age and experience no longer mattered.  We were one team.

I would encourage all of you who lead in ministry to consider this type of event.  It was well worth the investment of my time  - I suspect, more than I even know.

Lori Biddle
Director of Programming
Crossroads Community Church
Mansfield, Ohio

www.loribiddle.com

Friday, August 5, 2011

stop seeking

I have felt very restless again lately.  As if there is something I am supposed to be doing that I cannot identify.

I have been telling the Lord again, I will do whatever you want just show me.  But the Lord has been silent.  This leads me to assume I am just confused about what I am feeling or that He just wants me to wait.

A quiet night at home tonight allowed me to actually get all of my ironing done at one time.  So I carried by computer to where I was ironing and opened up a creative conference from last year to listen to the speakers.

The speaker was a Jewish man, a famous playwright, an openly non- Christian man. 

He said, "The way to find something is to stop seeking it".

Do you think this is true?










awkward

Awkward definitely describes how I feel a great deal of the time.  Not quite ready, not quite prepared, not quite educated, not quite experienced enough, not quite high class enough, not quite creative enough....awkward!

Blaine Hogan says,“Awkwardness creates space for us to transform into better versions of ourselves if we let it. But… Most of us spend our entire lives avoiding awkwardness at all costs.”


That is powerful!


When I find myself in that awkward place, do I use it?   Recognize what got me there and determine I won't get there again?  Or do I see it coming and avoid it, make excuses or just refuse to deal with it?


It doesn't feel good, that's for sure, but it could be right where God wants me.  Would I change if I were comfortable?  nope.


So maybe awkward is the new comfortable? 


Awkward - the place to be!



Thursday, August 4, 2011

dazzling

“How long will it be before we discover we
cannot dazzle God with our accomplishments?
— Brennan Manning


Why do I work so hard.  Why do people call me busy.  Why am I not silent more often.


Am I trying to be dazzling?  Fail.


My commitment to the Lord this week is brand new.  Challenged by Rick Muchow, worship leader for Saddleback Church, to make a commitment of living a life of worship, 


 I promise to daily hold my work, creativity and accomplishments up to the examination of heaven.  Only what is acceptable to God will I continue to invest my life in.  


If when I hold it toward Him I see any remnant of myself, I will begin again until I am gone.  Only then can it be called dazzling.



Wednesday, August 3, 2011

unexpected

Unexpected things interrupt.

We think we know how we will spend our evening.  We look forward to what we think we will do, all day long.  We move into our evening and the interruption comes.  The unexpected.

My husband and I both commented today on how we couldn't remember the last time we were not busy in the evening.  So we headed to a nearby restaurant just to have a bowl of soup and relax.

The phone rang with the unexpected.

To the hospital we rushed.  A child from church had nearly removed the last digit of her tiny finger in a closed door.  We were privileged to be with them.

You never know - we cannot know what comes next.

The only legitimate question is 'what" will call us out of our plans.

This life is not our own, I learn that more every single day.  If you can view it that way, if we can lay it at His feet.  Then there is no expected.  

His love is the only uninterrupted thing we can know.  And that is enough.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Run for Hope

Last Saturday at Crossroads Community Church - Deering Dyer and his team pulled off a very successful 5 and 10 K run.  Proceeds will go to help build a learning center on the property where the Asia's Hope orphanages are.

Only it's 2nd year, already Deering and his team have created one of the elite runs in the area!  288 registered to run!

Take a look at the highlights!


CLICK HERE:
http://animoto.com/play/8xdZzP1XFceq4nZRWGyy4A






Monday, August 1, 2011

consuming fire

Today I had a stimulating conversation about hell.

What brought it up was that Rick Muchow, from the Saddleback Church,  who we drove to the airport, was talking about an old Billy Graham teaching he had watched the night before.  Within the talk Dr. Graham said that he felt as if hell was completely dark, so when you hear people say "oh well, I'll be there with my friends" they are very wrong.

And, that when God speaks of an "all consuming fire" He is probably not talking about a physical fire, but instead a continuous, never ending, always haunting longing for God.  The lost will for eternity burn with the longing to know the God that they now believe exists.  They refused to believe in the Lord God while alive, but now are separated forever!   I cannot think of anything worse!

Can you imagine the never ending regret?  Every second of every day for eternity being consumed by that longing  - just like an all consuming fire...

When we arrived home a read an article from John Piper who was also writing about hell and suffering www.desiringgod.org

No mistake that the Lord was trying to teach me something or at least get my attention.

All consuming fire...I have never thought of hell in this way before...